Bill Clinton didn’t consider it sex. Lots of teens today consider oral sex a safe alternative to intercourse. Headlines like on ABC news in 2009 cry out, “Oral Sex is the New Goodnight Kiss.” Data suggests that oral sex is becoming more common practice in teens than vaginal intercourse, a major change from a generation ago. In 2002 up to 24% of males and 22% of females teens who had never had vaginal intercourse reported having had oral sex with an opposite sex partner (1). In addition gay men want the real truth, is oral sex a safe alternative to more risky behaviors? The answers seem to all be relative. There are few absolutes in life, but one of the truths is that the only way to completely avoid risk of an STD is to avoid any type of sex. That said, how safe, or alternatively how dangerous, is oral sex?
Let’s look at the evidence for transmission of the various STDs by oral-genital contact.
HIV: Human Immunodeficiency Virus, the cause of AIDS, is the STD many fear most. It can be transmitted when a body fluid containing the virus gains access to another person’s mucous membranes or bloodstream. Unquestionably HIV is transmitted by anal and vaginal intercourse. There are at least a few cases where it is believed that the HIV virus was transmitted to the receptive partner after oral sex with ejaculation. Oral sex without ejaculation into the mouth is theoretically possible, but is felt to be extraordinarily unlikely. The risk of contracting HIV from a single incidence of anal intercourse with with ejaculation and no condom use with an HIV infected male has been estimated at 1:100. Extensive study has been done in trying to find out what the incidence of contracting HIV from oral sex with ejaculation with an HIV infected male, but these studies all have confounding variables. The real problem is that all of these studies have been in gay male populations, and a low percentage of the men had only oral sex. On second and subsequent interviews many times the history changed, and made other routes of transmission more likely. In one study it was estimated that there were zero cases of conversion in a population after over 35,000 incidences of oral sex. All said, although it is possible to contact HIV from oral sex, the chances are very low. Low enough that if oral sex is a behavior that replaces anal intercourse in gay men the benefit of avoiding the high risk behavior likely greatly outweighs the risks of oral sex in this situation.
Herpes Simplex: This may be the most common STD transmitted by oral sex. Up to 70% of teens are estimate d to have been infected with the herpes simplex 1 virus, the cause of >90% of oral herpes cases. Many others, and many of the same people also have been infected with the herpes simplex 2 virus, the cause of >90% of genital herpes. The problem with herpes simplex is that despite popular belief, an infected person can shed the herpes virus at times when they have no symptoms or visible evidence of infection. It is believed to be fairly common to transmit the herpes simplex virus either from the mouth to the genitalia, or from the genitalia to the mouth during oral sex. The incidence of HSV transmission by oral sex is not well studied.
Gonorrhea: Gonorrhea, caused by the bacteria Nisseria gonococcus, is an STD that typically causes painful urination and a discharge of pus from the urethra in men. In women it can be asymptomatic, can cause a vaginal or cervical discharge, or can cause more serious infection of the fallopian tubes and or ovaries, called Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID). Gonorrhea can also infect the throat or tonsils. The route of this infection appears to be oral sex, generally receptive oral sex with the penis in the mouth. It is less clear whether cunnilingus can transmit gonorrhea although it is felt that this is very rare if it ever happens. Men likely only contact gonococcus from vaginal or anal intercourse or from an infected partner during receptive oral sex.
Chlamydia: There is less data about transmission of Chlamydia by oral sex. It is generally felt to be possible to transmit Chlamydia both as the person performing and the person receiving fellatio. The incidence of this is just not known.
Syphilis: Syphilis is fairly uncommon in the US, but transmission of syphilis during oral sex is relatively easy, and is felt to be a relatively common cause of transmission, possibly up to 15% of cases in some areas of the US.
HPV: HPV is probably the most prevalent STD in the world today. The HPV virus can be transmitted to the throat or mouth during oral sex. The incidence of this is poorly understood, but there is an increasing rate of HPV positive head and neck cancers in the last 30 years. Many experts feel that this correlates to increasing acceptance of oral sex. Oral cancer has historically been primarily a disease of older adults with a long history of smoking and drinking, or in younger persons who use oral tobacco. In recent years the incidence in younger non-tobacco users has increased, and many of these cancers are HPV positive on testing.
Hepatitis: There is debate whether hepatitis B can be transmitted by oral sex, but if possible it is felt to be very unlikely. Hepatitis A can clearly be transmitted by oral-anal sex, and is much more common in the gay male population than in the heterosexual population.
In summary oral sex is not safe sex, but it is far less risky than either vaginal or anal intercourse regarding STD transmission. In addition the risk of pregnancy in heterosexual oral sex is near zero. Avoiding receiving ejaculate in the mouth greatly lowers the risk of transmission of HIV, though probably not the risk of herpes, gonorrhea, or HPV. Condom use for men, or use of a dental dam in women seems effective in markedly reducing the risk of most STDs with oral sex, but may not be common practice.
Psychological Issues: Oral sex is clearly an intimate act. Most psychologists agree that sex, either oral sex or sexual intercourse, brings a relationship to a different level. How this type of intimacy affects a relationship, the self esteem of the participants, and future feelings about relationships and intimacy are subjects worthy of consideration, but I know of no research into this topic.
So, “How safe is oral sex?” What do you want to tell your children about oral sex as a part of their sex education? You can decide now based on the discussion above and whether it involves men having sex with other men (MSM) vs. heterosexual oral sex. One risk of labeling oral sex a high-risk behavior in MSM is that it may leave gay men feeling that its risk is equal to anal intercourse, which is far from the truth. If oral sex is an alternative to anal intercourse for MSM then it greatly reduces the risk of HIV transmission.
to try to improve the estimation of a woman’s risk for having a trisomy-21, or Down’s syndrome pregnancy without actually obtaining fetal cells, but all they have really done is improve statistical prediction capability. Up to this point in order to tell if a woman is carrying a Down’s Syndrome baby required amniocentesis to obtain amniotic fluid at about 16-18 weeks gestation, or the arguably higher risk chorioamniotic villous sampling at 10-12 weeks gestation. Both of these tests ran low (estimated 1/350) but real risks of fetal injury and miscarriage. Now from a company named Sequenom™ comes a test on fetal cells obtained by a venous blood sample of the pregnant women’s blood as early as 10 weeks gestation that can do genetic screening for Down’s Syndrome without more invasive ways to obtain fetal cells. The initial study of 212 women showed a >99% accuracy rate. (1 false positive, 2 false negatives in 212 women tested).
Despite the name which sounds like a terrible disease molluscum contagiosum is arguably the least serious and concerning of all warts and all STDs. Warts, STD’s, children, not serious? Has Dr. Pullen gone nuts? Hear me out. It all makes sense really if you read on.
Molluscum Contagiosum as an STD: Although in practice we mostly see molluscum contagiosum in children, they are also a sexually transmitted disease in older adolescents and adults. Molluscum contagiosum gets its name because it is fairly contagious. You tend to get the infection by skin-to-skin contact with another person with an infection, or contact with a fomite carrying the virus. A fomite is an inanimate object like a towel, clothing, toys, or any other object that has the virus attached to it. In sexually active persons the skin to skin contact tends to be on the genitalia, the torso and the proximal extremities. In children they are seen virtually anywhere except the palms and soles, although in my experience they are not common on the face.
